The person across the camera
Every match is an actual human who pressed the same button you did. Open with a normal hello, stay friendly, and pay attention to how the other side responds. New to this? how to start a 1v1 video call is a practical guide to the first minute.
Boundaries and consent
When someone skips, the answer was no — let it go and meet the next person. Do not push, do not beg for contact details, and do not capture any part of a call unless the other person explicitly agrees. A private room cuts both ways: respect what stays in it.
Hard lines
No harassment or threats. No hate. No scams or impersonation. No dragging calls toward off-platform payments or spam. And nothing involving minors — that one brings permanent removal and, where the law requires, a report to the authorities. There is no appeal on the hard lines.
The three buttons
Skip is for a call that falls flat. Block is for someone you do not want to meet twice. Report is for behavior that crosses a line — reports land with moderators, who review and act, and people who keep crossing lines stop appearing on the site. is HollaGirl safe describes what a report triggers.